I’m sorry, but if lesbians can control themselves in a girls only changing room with ass naked woman waltzing around. Then I figure men should be able to control them selves with clothed girls walking down the street. Just a thought.
Date someone who meets you half way. Date someone who brings you a glass a water when they get themselves one. Date someone who makes sure you don’t spend money on ridiculous things. Date someone your ex hates and your mom loves. Date someone who’d rather spend a Friday night watching movies, than out with 50 people they barley even talk to. Date someone who sleeps on your chest and leaves a little puddle of drool. Don’t date someone who makes you leave oceans of tears.
She has to understand and accept that you did like guys and you may still like guys. That’s the hardest thing for a lot of lesbians to accept. It doesn’t make her any less of a lover. The fact that guys are our competition intimidates us and I’m not entirely sure why. It may be a confidence thing because unfortunately women have much less confidence than men and its a shame…this has been studied. Tell her how great she is and how much you love her. I do preach a lot about how straight girls always leave and I honestly have bias because of what happened to me. But I know there are straight girls out there who truly fall in love for the first time with another girl and it lasts forever. Keep proving to her every day that you love her and are loyal to her. It’ll take time, but she has to believe it at some point. She lacks confidence in either herself or the relationship. she may need constant reassurance. This sounds kinda dumb but if you tell her that she’s the best and explain why that could really boost her confidence. Everyone wants to hear that they are the best especially if they know about your past relationships. Even exes are indirect competition because they are trying to be better than that person. Maybe she’s been hurt before too…break down that wall. Sorry this was so long.
She’d probably think I was insane if she knew all I wanted to do was hold her hand for the rest of my life.